Love to Cook or Cook to Love

Some of us love to cook, others not so much. Some people cook out of necessity and some to impress. Cook to love, finding a way to the heart through the stomach. It’s a different way to look at things when we have an interest and we are trying to find a way to have the interest be interested right back.

Us ladies try all sorts of things, you have all seen it before. We dress to impress, sometimes this works and sometimes it backfires. Let’s say you are not sure what to wear so you do your best to be neutral but all you have are cowboy boots and wranglers. You put a cute top with it but you are still a cow girl so you go to meet up only to find your interest is into “grunge”.
You can see how this approach can some times go afoul. So we fix up our hair, put on some make up and perfume go to a comedy club only to hear the joke about being ugly and smelling funny (why girls wear make-up and perfume). Well that worked real well, now your interest is afraid he may see “the real you”.

So then we move on to the last resort…. yep, through the stomach which I call cook to love. You make all these wonderful plans, check out different recipes and decide on a nice Italian lasagna and a green salad. Your interest shows up only to be gluten and lactose intolerant (darn, you should have went vegetarian).
Love to cook and all of this seems to go away. When you love to cook, you put that love right into whatever it is you are cooking. It seems when you love to cook you seem to have this super human intuition when you think about the guests and make the “perfect thing” that checks off all the boxes.

Next time you cook, tell yourself how much you love it and the love will come through. This is the best way to cook to love.

We will explore many ways to love cooking, great recipes and fun videos so stay tuned and keep posted for new stuff coming your way.